Hadith Text

We were sitting with `Abdullah bin `Amr who was narrating to us (Hadith): He said, "Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) was neither a Fahish nor a Mutafahhish, and he used to say, 'The best among you are the best in character (having good manners).'"

Reference: Sahih al-Bukhari 6035 | Book: Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab)

Explanation of Terms

Fahish: One who speaks or acts in an obscene, vulgar, or foul manner, using explicit and offensive language.

Mutafahhish: One who seeks out or promotes obscenity, encourages vulgar speech in others, or makes foul speech appear acceptable.

Scholarly Commentary

The Prophet (ﷺ) was completely pure in his speech and conduct, avoiding all forms of vulgarity and obscenity. His noble character was such that he never uttered foul words nor encouraged others to do so.

The statement "The best among you are the best in character" establishes that true excellence in Islam is measured by moral conduct and beautiful manners, not by lineage, wealth, or physical appearance.

This hadith teaches that a Muslim should purify both their speech and actions from all forms of obscenity and vulgarity, following the perfect example of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ).

Practical Application

Guard your tongue from foul language, jokes, and speech that may offend others or degrade your character.

Cultivate refined manners in all interactions, treating others with respect, kindness, and dignity.

Strive to be among the best people by perfecting your character, as this is the true measure of excellence in Islam.