Sahih al-Bukhari 5079

Abū al-Nuʿmān narrated to us: Hushaym narrated to us: Sayyār narrated to us, from al-Shaʿbī, from Jābir ibn ʿAbd Allāh, who said: We were returning with the Prophet from a campaign. I hurried ahead on a sluggish camel of mine. A rider caught up behind me and prodded my camel with a spear he had with him. It then went off as swiftly as the finest camel you could see. Then I saw that it was the Prophet. He said, ‘Why are you in such a hurry?’ I said, ‘I have only recently married.’ He asked, ‘A virgin or a previously married woman?’ I said, ‘Previously married.’ He said, ‘Why not a young woman, so that you could play with her and she with you?’ When we were about to enter [the city], he said, ‘Wait until you enter at nightfall, so that the woman with disheveled hair may comb it, and the woman whose husband has been away may use a razor.’