Sahih al-Bukhari 5080

Ādam narrated to us: Shuʿbah narrated to us: Muḥārib narrated to us, saying: I heard Jābir ibn ʿAbd Allāh (may Allah be pleased with them both) say: I got married. The Messenger of Allah said to me, ‘Whom did you marry?’ I replied, ‘A previously married woman.’ He said, ‘What have you to do with virgins and their playfulness?’ I mentioned this to ʿAmr ibn Dīnār, who said: I heard Jābir ibn ʿAbd Allāh say: The Messenger of Allah said to me, ‘Why did you not marry a young woman, so that you could play with her and she with you?’