"No Muslim, three of whose children die, will be touched by the Fire, except in fulfillment of the (Divine) oath."
Hadith Text & Reference
"No Muslim, three of whose children die, will be touched by the Fire, except in fulfillment of the (Divine) oath."
Source: Sunan an-Nasa'i 1875 | Book: The Book of Funerals
Meaning & Context
This hadith addresses the immense trial of losing children and the corresponding divine reward. It assures believers that parents who patiently endure the death of three children will attain Paradise. The phrase "except in fulfillment of the (Divine) oath" refers to the initial passing through the Fire for some sinners as purification before their eventual admission to Paradise, meaning they will not remain in it eternally.
Scholarly Commentary
Classical scholars explain that this promise demonstrates Allah's immense mercy. The death of children is considered a form of martyrdom for the child and an expiation of sins for the parents. The number three signifies a complete test of patience. Scholars like Imam an-Nawawi stated this applies to children who died before puberty, as they are considered pure and automatically granted Paradise.
The divine oath mentioned refers to Allah's justice - that no one enters Paradise without His mercy, and some believers may require purification. This hadith serves as profound consolation, transforming earthly loss into eternal gain through divine promise and recompense.