Sunan an-Nasa'i

Sunan an-Nasa'i 3235

Arabic hadith text

أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ بْنِ أَبِي رِزْمَةَ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حَفْصُ بْنُ غِيَاثٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَاصِمٌ، عَنْ بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْمُزَنِيِّ، عَنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ، قَالَ خَطَبْتُ امْرَأَةً عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ أَنَظَرْتَ إِلَيْهَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قُلْتُ لاَ ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا فَإِنَّهُ أَجْدَرُ أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏

Translation

Muhammad ibn Abd al-Aziz ibn Abi Rizmah reported to us; he said: Hafs ibn Ghiyath narrated to us; he said: Asim narrated to us, from Bakr ibn Abd Allah al-Muzani, from al-Mughirah ibn Shubah, who said: I proposed to a woman during the time of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). The Prophet asked: ‘Have you looked at her?’ I said, ‘No.’ He said: ‘Then look at her, for that is more likely to bring lasting affection between you.’

Translation notes
  • The expression يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا is idiomatic; it refers to affection or harmony being brought together and lasting between the spouses.

  • ‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا فَإِنَّهُ أَجْدَرُ أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا ‏"‏ ‏.

    The verb يُؤْدَمَ can convey lasting concord or affection between the couple.

    Does “bring lasting affection between you” best capture the idiom’s sense?