Sunan an-Nasa'i 3219

Qutaybah reported to us; he said: Hammad narrated to us, from Amr, from Jabir, who said: I got married and came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). He asked: ‘Have you married, Jabir?’ I said, ‘Yes.’ He asked: ‘A virgin or a previously married woman?’ I said, ‘A previously married woman.’ He said: ‘Why not a virgin, so that you could play with her and she with you?’