أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ آدَمَ، عَنْ عَبْدَةَ، عَنْ هِشَامٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ تَزَوَّجَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَأَنَا بِنْتُ سِتٍّ وَدَخَلَ عَلَىَّ وَأَنَا بِنْتُ تِسْعِ سِنِينَ وَكُنْتُ أَلْعَبُ بِالْبَنَاتِ ‏.‏
Translation
It was narrated that 'Aishah said

"The Messenger of Allah married me when I was six, and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine, and I used to play with dolls."

Comment

The Book of Marriage - Sunan an-Nasa'i 3378

This narration from the Mother of the Believers, 'A'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her), is authentically established in the collections of hadith and requires understanding through the lens of Islamic scholarship and historical context.

Scholarly Commentary on the Marriage Age

The scholars of Islam explain that the Divine Wisdom in this marriage served multiple purposes: establishing the Prophet's household, preserving 'A'ishah's noble lineage, and demonstrating the permissibility of such marriages in Islamic law when conditions are met.

Classical jurists note that puberty (bulugh) is the primary consideration for marriage consummation in Islamic law, not chronological age. 'A'ishah had reached physical maturity when the marriage was consummated, as confirmed by her own testimony and the absence of any objection from her family or community.

Understanding the Historical Context

This marriage occurred in 7th century Arabia where such practices were culturally normative and biologically appropriate given the regional climate and development patterns. Scholars emphasize that Islamic rulings must be understood within their historical and environmental context.

The mention of playing with dolls indicates natural childhood behavior, which scholars explain was permissible at that time as these were not idolatrous images but simple toys. This detail actually reinforces her youthfulness and the purity of the marriage.

Legal Rulings Derived

From this hadith, classical scholars derived that marriage contracts can be arranged for minors by their guardians, while consummation awaits physical maturity. They also established that what was permissible during the Prophet's time remains legislatively valid unless specifically abrogated by later revelation.

The unanimity of Muslim scholars across centuries affirms the validity and wisdom of this marriage, recognizing the exceptional status of the Prophet's household and the divine wisdom behind all his actions.