Sunan an-Nasa'i

Sunan an-Nasa'i 2531

The Upper Hand
Arabic hadith text
أَخْبَرَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي سَعِيدٌ، وَعُرْوَةُ، سَمِعَا حَكِيمَ بْنَ حِزَامٍ، يَقُولُ سَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَعْطَانِي ثُمَّ سَأَلْتُهُ فَأَعْطَانِي ثُمَّ سَأَلْتُهُ فَأَعْطَانِي ثُمَّ قَالَ ‏"‏ إِنَّهَذَا الْمَالَ خَضِرَةٌ حُلْوَةٌ فَمَنْ أَخَذَهُ بِطِيبِ نَفْسٍ بُورِكَ لَهُ فِيهِ وَمَنْ أَخَذَهُ بِإِشْرَافِ نَفْسٍ لَمْ يُبَارَكْ لَهُ فِيهِ وَكَانَ كَالَّذِي يَأْكُلُ وَلاَ يَشْبَعُ وَالْيَدُ الْعُلْيَا خَيْرٌ مِنَ الْيَدِ السُّفْلَى ‏"
Translation
Sa'eed and 'Urwah narrated that they heard Hakim bin Hizam say

"I asked the Messenger of Allah and he gave me, then I asked him and he gave me, then I asked him and he gave me. Then he said: "This wealth is attractive and sweet. Whoever takes it without insisting, it will be blessed for him, and whoever takes it with avarice, it will not be blessed for him. He is like one who eats and is not satisfied. And the upper hand is better than the lower hand."'

Commentary

Overview & Central Theme

This profound hadith, recorded by Imam An-Nasa'i in the Book of Zakah (Sunan an-Nasa'i 2531), addresses the delicate balance between seeking provision and maintaining spiritual integrity. The Companion (likely Hakim ibn Hizam, may Allah be pleased with him) recounts repeatedly asking the Prophet ﷺ for wealth, receiving it each time. The Prophet ﷺ then delivers a timeless lesson: worldly wealth is "attractive and sweet" (khadiratun hulwatun)—it naturally appeals to human desire. The central theme is the ethics of taking from public treasury or charitable wealth: one who receives without insistent craving (mas'alah) is blessed, while one who takes with avarice (ishraf) loses the blessing and remains perpetually unsatisfied. The hadith culminates in the famous principle that the "upper hand" (the giving hand) is superior to the "lower hand" (the receiving hand), establishing a hierarchy of dignity rooted in generosity rather than accumulation.

Context & Linguistic Insights

The hadith's context (sabab al-wurud) involves Hakim ibn Hizam, a noble Companion who had embraced Islam after the conquest of Mecca. He asked the Prophet ﷺ for wealth from the spoils or public funds, and the Prophet ﷺ generously gave him three times. The Prophet ﷺ then paused to educate him, fearing that unchecked asking would lead to spiritual harm. Linguistically, "khadiratun" (خضرة) evokes the freshness and verdure of vegetation—wealth appears lush and appealing, yet it can be a trial. "Hulwatun" (حلوة) means sweet, alluding to its pleasurable taste that can become addictive. The phrase "man akhadhahu bihi bi ghayri ishrafin nufs" (whoever takes it without his soul insisting) uses "ishraf" (إشراف), which conveys eager craving and greedy longing. The metaphor "ka akilin la yashba'" (like one who eats but is not satisfied) powerfully illustrates the insatiable nature of greed. The "upper hand" (al-yad al-'ulya) is classically interpreted as the giving hand, while the "lower hand" (al-yad al-sufla) is the receiving hand, though some scholars also interpret it as the hand that refrains from asking.

Key Scholarly Insights & Legal Benefits

  • Jurisprudential ruling on asking: The hadith establishes that it is permissible to give to one who asks, but it is disliked (makruh) to ask without genuine need. Imam An-Nawawi states that asking is permissible in cases of necessity, but the Prophet's ﷺ warning indicates that refraining is superior for one's spiritual well-being.
  • Ethical principle of contentment: The blessing in wealth is contingent upon the inner state of the recipient. When one receives with humility and without craving, Allah places barakah (blessing) in it, making it sufficient. When taken with avarice, the wealth becomes a source of restlessness and dissatisfaction.
  • Consensus on the superiority of giving: Scholars unanimously agree that the "upper hand" refers to the one who gives, and this hadith is a foundational text encouraging charity and self-sufficiency. Imam Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani notes that this principle applies broadly—whether giving from one's own wealth or from public office—and that the dignity of giving elevates the believer.
"The meaning of 'the upper hand is better than the lower hand' is that the hand that gives is better than the hand that takes, for the giver is elevated in status and the taker is lowered. This is a clear indication of the virtue of giving and the blameworthiness of asking without need." — Imam An-Nawawi, Sharh Sahih Muslim

Daily Life & Spiritual Application

This hadith offers a transformative lens for modern believers navigating a world of material abundance and relentless consumerism. Practically, it teaches us to examine our intentions when seeking wealth or assistance: Are we asking out of genuine need or out of greed? The principle of "not insisting" (ghayr ishraf) encourages us to cultivate qana'ah (contentment) and tawakkul (reliance on Allah), trusting that provision is decreed. In daily life, we can apply this by avoiding excessive requests—whether from people, institutions, or even in our prayers for worldly gain—and instead focusing on gratitude for what we have. The hadith also inspires us to be the "upper hand" through regular charity, even if small, and to seek self-sufficiency through halal work. Spiritually, it reminds us that true satisfaction lies not in accumulation but in giving, for the heart that gives mirrors the Generosity of Allah. Let us reflect: Are we feeding our souls with gratitude or starving them with greed? The Prophet's ﷺ words are a gentle yet firm call to purify our relationship with wealth, making it a means of nearness to Allah rather than a veil from Him.