"When a man spends on his family, seeking reward for that, that is an act of charity on his part."
Hadith Text and Reference
"When a man spends on his family, seeking reward for that, that is an act of charity on his part."
Source: Sunan an-Nasa'i 2545 | Book: The Book of Zakah
Meaning and Significance
This noble hadith elevates the mundane act of providing for one's family to the status of worship when accompanied by the proper intention. The Prophet (peace be upon him) teaches that worldly expenditures, when performed with the consciousness of seeking Allah's pleasure, become transformed into spiritual acts of charity (sadaqah).
The phrase "seeking reward" (ibtighāʼ al-ajr) indicates the crucial element of niyyah (intention) that distinguishes mere customary spending from worship. This aligns with the fundamental Islamic principle that deeds are judged by intentions.
Scholarly Commentary
Imam an-Nawawi explains that this hadith demonstrates the vast mercy of Allah, who multiplies rewards for believers by counting ordinary acts of maintenance as charity when performed with sincere intention. This encompasses providing food, clothing, shelter, and all necessary provisions.
Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali notes that this teaching encourages Muslims to maintain their families with excellence, knowing that such provision is not merely a social obligation but an act of worship that draws them closer to Allah.
Classical scholars emphasize that this ruling applies equally to women who spend from their wealth on their families, as the Arabic term "rajul" (man) in such contexts often denotes any person regardless of gender.
Practical Implications
This teaching transforms family life into an arena of continuous worship. A Muslim should consciously renew their intention when providing for their household, seeking Allah's pleasure and reward.
The hadith encourages moderation and balance in spending - neither extravagance nor stinginess - as both extremes contradict the spirit of charitable giving.
Scholars note that this principle extends beyond immediate family to include relatives whom one is obligated to support, thus expanding the opportunities for earning reward through normal social obligations.