Sunan an-Nasa'i

Sunan an-Nasa'i 2601

Asking When There Is No Alternative
Arabic hadith text
أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الْجَبَّارِ بْنُ الْعَلاَءِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْجَبَّارِ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي عُرْوَةُ، عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ حِزَامٍ، قَالَ سَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَعْطَانِي ثُمَّ سَأَلْتُهُ فَأَعْطَانِي ثُمَّ سَأَلْتُهُ فَأَعْطَانِي فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ يَا حَكِيمُ إِنَّهَذَا الْمَالَ خَضِرَةٌ حُلْوَةٌ فَمَنْ أَخَذَهُ بِطِيبِ نَفْسٍ بُورِكَ لَهُ فِيهِ وَمَنْ أَخَذَهُ بِإِشْرَافِ نَفْسٍ لَمْ يُبَارَكْ لَهُ فِيهِ وَكَانَ كَالَّذِي يَأْكُلُ وَلاَ يَشْبَعُ وَالْيَدُ الْعُلْيَا خَيْرٌ مِنَ الْيَدِ السُّفْلَى ‏"
Translation
It was narrated that Kakim bin Hizam said

"I asked the Messenger of Allah and he gave me, then I asked him and he gave me, then I asked him and he gave me. Then he said: This wealth is attractive and sweet. Whoever takes it without insisting, it will be blessed for him, and whoever takes it with avarice, it will not be blessed for him. He is like one who eats and is not satisfied. And the upper hand is better than the lower hand."'

Commentary

Overview & Central Theme

This profound hadith, recorded by Imam An-Nasa'i in his Sunan (2601), encapsulates the Islamic ethical framework regarding wealth, contentment (qana'ah), and the dignity of self-sufficiency. The Companion—identified in other narrations as Abu Sa'id al-Khudri or 'Umar ibn al-Khattab—recounts multiple instances of requesting from the Prophet ﷺ, who generously gave each time. Rather than reproaching the request itself, the Prophet ﷺ transforms the moment into a timeless lesson: worldly wealth is alluring ("attractive and sweet"), yet its blessing depends entirely on the heart's posture. The central theme is the spiritual psychology of acquisition—those who take without greediness (ghair ishraf) receive barakah, while those who clutch with avarice find only insatiability, like one who eats yet remains hungry. The hadith culminates in the famous principle: the upper hand (the giver) is superior to the lower hand (the receiver), establishing a hierarchy of nobility rooted in generosity over dependency.

Context & Linguistic Insights

The sabab al-wurud (context) involves a Companion who repeatedly sought from the Prophet ﷺ, likely during a distribution of wealth or war spoils. The Prophet ﷺ, embodying divine generosity, never refused, but after the third request, he imparted this wisdom. Linguistically, the phrase "al-mal hadratun 'udhwatun" (wealth is attractive and sweet) uses "hadrah" (fresh, verdant) and "'udhwah" (sweet, palatable)—evoking a ripe fruit that tempts the hand. The key term "ishraf" (insisting/avarice) derives from the root shin-ra-fa, meaning to look down from a height with eager craving; it denotes an aggressive, demanding attitude. "Aklun" (eats) is metaphorical for consumption without satiation, while "al-yad al-'ulya" (upper hand) and "al-yad as-sufla" (lower hand) are not literal anatomical references but symbolic of giving versus receiving. Imam Al-Khattabi notes that "upper" signifies elevation in status, honor, and spiritual rank, not physical position. The Prophet's ﷺ use of "laysa" (is not blessed) rather than "haram" (forbidden) indicates a loss of barakah, not legal prohibition—a subtle distinction that preserves the permissibility of taking while warning of spiritual consequences.

Key Scholarly Insights & Legal Benefits

  • Conditionality of Barakah: The hadith establishes that the blessing in wealth is contingent upon the recipient's inner state—taking without ishraf (greedy insistence) invites divine blessing, while avaricious taking nullifies it, even if the wealth is lawful. This aligns with the Qur'anic principle that Allah increases the grateful (Ibrahim 14:7).
  • Ethics of Asking: Jurists derive that requesting from others is permissible when necessary, but the hadith strongly discourages habitual asking. Imam Ash-Shafi'i ruled that it is disliked (makruh) to ask without genuine need, while Ibn Hazm considered it prohibited when one possesses enough for the day—a view echoed by the majority.
  • Superiority of Giving: The principle "the upper hand is better than the lower hand" is a foundational legal maxim (qaidah fiqhiyyah) that prioritizes charitable giving over receiving, establishing a societal ethos of mutual support and dignity. Imam Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani comments: "This is a definitive proof that giving is more virtuous than withholding, and that the giver's rank is higher in the sight of Allah."
"The Prophet ﷺ did not forbid the Companion from asking, but he taught him the etiquettes of taking. Wealth is a trial; whoever takes it with a contented heart finds it a blessing, and whoever takes it with a greedy soul finds it a curse. The upper hand is not merely the one that gives, but the one that is free from need." — Imam Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali, Jami' al-'Ulum wa al-Hikam

Daily Life & Spiritual Application

In our contemporary world of consumerism and relentless acquisition, this hadith serves as a spiritual compass. First, it calls us to examine our intentions (niyyah) before any financial transaction or request—are we seeking out of genuine need or out of greed? The believer should cultivate qana'ah, a deep contentment with what Allah has decreed, recognizing that true richness is richness of the soul (ghina an-nafs). Second, the hadith urges proactive generosity: strive to be the "upper hand" through regular charity (sadaqah), even if small, and through offering time, knowledge, and emotional support. Third, it warns against the illusion that more wealth brings satisfaction; the insatiable eater metaphor reminds us that worldly accumulation never fills the spiritual void—only remembrance of Allah and gratitude do. Practically, this means setting a budget for giving before spending, avoiding debt-driven lifestyles that necessitate asking, and training the heart to say "Alhamdulillah" in every circumstance. When we do receive—whether from inheritance, gifts, or earnings—we should receive with humility and gratitude, not entitlement, thereby inviting barakah into our provisions. Ultimately, this teaching elevates the believer from a consumer of dunya to a steward of akhirah, finding peace in giving and freedom in contentment.