Sunan an-Nasa'i

Sunan an-Nasa'i 2602

Asking When There Is No Alternative
Arabic hadith text
أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مِسْكِينُ بْنُ بُكَيْرٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الأَوْزَاعِيُّ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيَّبِ، عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ حِزَامٍ، قَالَ سَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَعْطَانِي ثُمَّ سَأَلْتُهُ فَأَعْطَانِي ثُمَّ سَأَلْتُهُ فَأَعْطَانِي ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ يَا حَكِيمُ إِنَّهَذَا الْمَالَ خَضِرَةٌ حُلْوَةٌ مَنْ أَخَذَهُ بِسَخَاوَةِ نَفْسٍ بُورِكَ لَهُ فِيهِ وَمَنْ أَخَذَهُ بِإِشْرَافِ النَّفْسِ لَمْ يُبَارَكْ لَهُ فِيهِ وَكَانَ كَالَّذِي يَأْكُلُ وَلاَ يَشْبَعُ وَالْيَدُ الْعُلْيَا خَيْرٌ مِنَ الْيَدِ السُّفْلَى ‏"
Translation
It was narrated that Hakim bin Hizam said

"I asked the Messenger of Allah and he gave me, then I asked him and he gave me, then I asked him and he gave me. Then he said: 'O Kahim! This wealth is attractive and sweet. Whoever takes it without being greedy, it will be blessed for him, and whoever takes it with avarice, it will not be blessed for him. He is like one who eats and is not satisfied. And the upper hand is better than the lower hand."'

Commentary

Overview & Central Theme

This profound hadith, recorded by Imam An-Nasa'i in The Book of Zakah (Sunan an-Nasa'i 2602), addresses the spiritual ethics of wealth acquisition and the inner disposition of the heart toward material provision. The Prophet ﷺ, after repeatedly giving to Hakim ibn Hizam (may Allah be pleased with him), transforms a moment of personal generosity into a timeless lesson: worldly wealth is alluring and sweet, but its blessing depends entirely on the recipient's intention and attitude. The central theme is the purification of the soul from greed (sharh al-hirs) and the cultivation of contentment (qana'ah), culminating in the principle that the giving hand is superior to the receiving hand—a foundational maxim in Islamic economic and social ethics.

Context & Linguistic Insights

The narrator is Hakim ibn Hizam (رضي الله عنه), a noble Companion who had requested from the Prophet ﷺ on multiple occasions. The Prophet ﷺ, out of generosity, gave each time, but then lovingly cautioned him. The phrase "wealth is attractive and sweet" (inna hadha al-mala khadiratun hulwatun) employs the imagery of fresh green vegetation (khadirah) and sweetness (hulwah)—both desirable yet perishable, alluding to the temporary allure of dunya. The term "without being greedy" (bi ghayri ishrafin) refers to a heart free from eager craving and covetousness; "ishraf" linguistically implies looking intently at something with longing, leading to overreaching. The Prophet's ﷺ words "like one who eats and is not satisfied" (ka akil la yashba') vividly depict the insatiable nature of greed—a spiritual disease that consumes the soul. The "upper hand" (al-yad al-'ulya) is the giving hand, and the "lower hand" (al-yad al-sufla) is the receiving hand, a metaphor for dignity and dependence.

Key Scholarly Insights & Legal Benefits

  • Intention (Niyyah) Determines Blessing: The barakah in wealth is contingent upon the heart's state—free from greed and avarice. A person may receive much yet remain unblessed, while another receives little with contentment and finds abundance.
  • Prohibition of Begging and Covetousness: Scholars derive that it is discouraged (makruh) to ask from others without genuine need, and the hadith strongly encourages self-sufficiency and dignified earning, aligning with the principle that the upper hand is better.
  • Balance Between Zakat and Generosity: In the context of Zakah, this hadith teaches that giving purifies wealth and the soul, while taking with greed corrupts both. The classical consensus (ijma') holds that charity is recommended for the wealthy and permissible for the needy, but never for the greedy.
"The meaning of 'upper hand' is the one that gives, and 'lower hand' is the one that asks. The Prophet ﷺ intended to encourage giving and discourage asking. This applies even to the one who is not in need, for the giver is always superior in rank and dignity." — Imam An-Nawawi, Sharh Sahih Muslim

Daily Life & Spiritual Application

In our modern world of consumerism and accumulation, this hadith serves as a spiritual compass. It calls us to examine our hearts when earning, spending, and receiving: Are we driven by ishraf (greed) or by need and gratitude? Practically, we should strive to be the "upper hand" by giving regularly—whether through Zakah, Sadaqah, or simple acts of kindness—while guarding against the "lower hand" mentality of entitlement and dependency. When we do receive, whether from Allah or from people, we should do so with humility, without excessive craving, and with the intention of using it for good. The hadith also teaches us to be content with what Allah has decreed, for true richness is richness of the soul. Let us remember that wealth is a test: it is "attractive and sweet," but only those who handle it with purified hearts will taste its true blessing, both in this life and the Hereafter.