None of you is a believer until I am dearer to him than his child, his father, and the whole of mankind.
The Book of Faith - Sahih Muslim 44b
This profound hadith from Sahih Muslim establishes the paramount position of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) in the heart of a true believer. The commentary that follows is presented in the manner of classical Islamic scholarship.
The Essence of True Faith (Iman)
The scholars explain that this hadith establishes a fundamental condition for complete faith. It does not negate the basic faith (iman asl) of one who struggles with this, but describes the perfection of faith (iman kamal).
Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali states: "This preference is not merely emotional, but manifests in obedience - following the Prophet's commands, avoiding his prohibitions, and giving precedence to his guidance over all other opinions and desires."
The Hierarchy of Love in Islam
Al-Qadi 'Iyad explains that love in Islam has levels: love of Allah is supreme, then love of His Messenger, then love for one's parents, children, and fellow Muslims.
This hadith establishes that the Prophet's position in a believer's heart must exceed even the strongest natural human attachments. This is because he is the means to Allah's pleasure and the guide to salvation.
Practical Manifestations
This love manifests practically by: giving precedence to the Sunnah over cultural practices, studying his seerah (biography), sending blessings upon him regularly, and defending his honor.
Imam Nawawi comments: "The meaning is that the faith of a person is not complete until the Prophet (ﷺ) becomes dearer to him than everyone else. This is achieved by perfect following of his example in all matters."
Spiritual Significance
This teaching trains the believer to transcend natural inclinations and base desires. It elevates divine love above worldly attachments, creating a heart centered on prophetic guidance.
As Al-Ghazali states: "When love of the Messenger fills the heart, it naturally diminishes love for worldly attachments, yet enhances proper care for family as he himself taught."