Hadith Text

"A man is upon the religion of his friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source Reference

Book: Chapters On Zuhd

Author: Jami' at-Tirmidhi

Hadith: Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2378

Meaning & Significance

This profound hadith warns believers about the powerful influence of companionship on one's faith and character. It indicates that a person naturally inclines toward, adopts the qualities of, and is influenced by those with whom they maintain close friendship.

Scholarly Commentary

Imam at-Tirmidhi classifies this hadith as hasan (good). Scholars explain that this does not mean a person literally changes their religious affiliation, but rather that one's practice, manners, and spiritual state are profoundly affected by close companions.

Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali comments that friendship creates a natural inclination in the heart toward what the friend loves and practices. The righteous friend draws one toward goodness, while the corrupt friend pulls toward evil.

Al-Munawi states that this hadith serves as a severe warning to examine one's companions carefully, for they will inevitably influence one's religious commitment and ultimate destiny.

Practical Implications

Muslims must be selective in choosing friends, prioritizing those who strengthen their faith and encourage righteousness.

One should regularly assess their friendships and distance themselves from those who negatively impact their religious practice or moral character.

This principle extends to all relationships, including business partnerships and marital choices, as all close associations affect one's spiritual state.