General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)

كتاب الأدب

Chapter 143: Asking permission to enter at the three times of undress

Ibn ‘Abbas said

Abu Dawud said: 'Ata also transmitted it from Ibn 'Abbas in a similar way. He commanded to act upon this.

Narrated Abdullah Ibn Abbas

Ikrimah said: A group of people from Iraq said: Ibn Abbas, what is your opinion about the verse in which we have been commanded whatever we have been commanded, but no one acts upon it? The word of Allah, Most High, reads: "O ye who believe! Let those whom your right hands possess, and the (children) among you, who have not come of age, ask your permission (before) they enter your presence on three occasions: before morning prayer, while you are undressing for the noonday heat, and after late-night prayer. These are your three times of undress; outside those times it is not wrong for you or for them to move about."

Al-Qa'nabi recited the verse up to "full of knowledge and wisdom".

Ibn Abbas said: Allah is Most Clement and Most Merciful to the believers. He loves concealment. The people had neither curtains nor curtained canopies in their houses. Sometimes a servant, a child or a female orphan of a man entered while the man was having sexual intercourse with his wife. So Allah commanded them to ask permission in those times of undress. Then Allah brought them curtains and all good things. But I did not see anyone following it after that.

Abu Dawud said: The tradition of 'Ubaid Allah and of 'Ata, weakens this tradition.

Chapter 144: Spreading salam

Abu Hurairah reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying

By him in whose hand my soul is, you will not enter Paradise until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another: should I not guide you to something doing which you will love one another: spread out salutation among you.

‘Abd Allah b. ‘Amr said

A man asked the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him): When aspect of Islam is best? He replied: that you should provide food and greet both those you know and those you do not know.

Chapter 145: How to greet others with salam

Narrated Imran ibn Husayn

A man came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: Peace be upon you! He responded to his salutation. He then sat down. The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Ten. Another man came and said: Peace and Allah's mercy be upon you! He responded to his salutation when he sat down. He said: Twenty. Another man came and said: Peace and Allah's mercy and blessings be upon you! He responded to him and said when he sat down: and blessings be upon you! He responded to him and said when he sat down: Thirty.

Narrated Mu'adh ibn Anas

(This version is same as previous No 5176 from the Prophet (ﷺ), adding that): Afterwards another man came and said: Peace and Allah's mercy, blessings and forgiveness be upon you! whereupon he said: Forty. adding: Thus are excellent qualities rewarded.

Chapter 146: The virtue of the one who initiates the greeting of salam

Narrated AbuUmamah

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Those who are nearest to Allah are they who are first to give a salutation.

Chapter 147: Regarding who should be greeted first

Abu Hurairah reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying

The young should salute the old, the one who is passing by should salute the one who is sitting, and a small company should salute a large one.

Abu Hurairah reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying

one who is riding should salute one who is walking. He then mentioned the rest of the tradition.

Chapter 148: Regarding when a man parts from another, then meets him again, he should greet him with the salam

Narrated AbuHurayrah

When one of you meets his brother, he should salute him, then if he meets him again after a tree, wall or stone has come between them, he should also salute him.

Mu'awiyah said: 'Abd al-Wahhab b. Bakht transmitted a similar tradition to me from Abu al-Zinad, from al-A'raj, from Abu Hurairah, from the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ).

Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas

Umar came to the Prophet (ﷺ) when he was in his wooden oriel, and said to him: Peace be upon you. Messenger of Allah, peace be upon you! May Umar enter ?

Chapter 149: Regarding greeting children

Narrated Anas ibn Malik

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) came to some children who were playing: He saluted them.

Narrated Anas ibn Malik

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) came to us when I was a boy among the boys. He saluted us and took me by my hand. He then sent me with some message. He himself sat in the shadow of a wall, or he said: near a wall until I returned to him.

Chapter 150: Regarding greeting women

Asma', daughter of Yazid, said

the Prophet (ﷺ), passed us by when we were with some women and gave us a salutation.

Chapter 151: Regarding greeting Ahl-ad-dhimmah

Narrated AbuHurayrah

Suhayl ibn AbuSalih said: I went out with my father to Syria. The people passed by the cloisters in which there were Christians and began to salute them. My father said: Do not give them salutation first, for AbuHurayrah reported the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) as saying: Do not salute them (Jews and Christians) first, and when you meet them on the road, force them to go to the narrowest part of it.

Narrated Abdullah ibn Umar

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: When one of the Jews greets you saying: Death may come upon you, reply: The same to you.

Abu Dawud said: Malik b. 'Adb Allah b. Dinar transmitted it in a similar manner, and al-Thawri transmitted it from 'Abd Allah b. Dinar. He said in this version: The same to you.

Anas said

The Companions of the prophet (ﷺ) said to the prophet (ﷺ): The people of the Book salute us. How should we reply to them? He said: say : the same to you.

Chapter 152: Regarding saying the salam when leaving the gathering

Narrated AbuHurayrah

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: When one of you comes to an assembly, he should give a salutation and if he feels inclined to get up, he should give a salutation, for the former is not more of a duty than the latter.

Chapter 153: It is disliked to say "alaikas salam"(upon you be peace)

Narrated AbuJurayy al-Hujaymi

I came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: Upon you be peace, Messenger of Allah! He said: Do not say: Upon you be peace, for "Upon you be peace" is the salutation to the dead.

Chapter 154: What has been narrated about one person responding on behalf of a group

Narrated Ali ibn AbuTalib

AbuDawud said: Al-Hasan ibn Ali traced this tradition back to the Prophet (ﷺ): When people are passing by, it is enough if one of them gives a salutation on their behalf, and that it is enough for those who are sitting if one of them replies.