General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)

كتاب الأدب

Chapter 121: When a man claims to belong to someone other than his master

Sa’id b. Malik said

‘Asim said : I said : Abu ‘Uthman! Two men testified before you. Who are they? He said : One of them is the one who is first to shoot arrow in the path of Allah or in the path of Islam, that is to say : Sa’d b. Malik. The other is the one came from al-Taif with ten and some men on foot. He then mentioned his excellence.

Abu Dawud said : When al-Nufaili mentioned this tradition, he said : I swear by Allah, this is sweater with me than honey, that is no say, his way transmission.

Abu ‘Ali said : I heard Abu Dawud say : I heard Ahmad say : The people of Kufah have no light in their traditions. I did not see them like the people of Basrah. They learnt it from Shu’bah.

Chapter 122: Regarding boasting of one's lineage

Narrated AbuHurayrah

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Allah, Most High, has removed from you the pride of the pre-Islamic period and its boasting in ancestors. One is only a pious believer or a miserable sinner. You are sons of Adam, and Adam came from dust. Let the people cease to boast about their ancestors. They are merely fuel in Jahannam; or they will certainly be of less account with Allah than the beetle which rolls dung with its nose.

Chapter 123: Regarding tribalism

‘Abd Allah b. Mas’ud said

I went to the prophet (May peace be upon him) when he was in a skin tent. He then mentioned something similar to it.

Jubair b. Mut’im reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying

he who summons others to party-spirit does not belong to us; and he who dies upholding party spirit does not belong to us.’

Abu Musa reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying

the son of a sister of a people belongs to them.

Narrated AbuUqbah

AbdurRahman ibn AbuUqbah quoted his father AbuUqbah who was a client from the people of Persia as saying: I was present at Uhud along with the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ), and on smiting one of the polytheists I said: Take this from me who is the young Persian. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) then turned to me and said: Why did you not say: Take this from me who is the young Ansari?

Chapter 124: When one man loves another because of some good that he sees

‘Abd Allah b. al-samit told that Abu Dharr said

Messenger of Allah! A man loves some people, but he cannot do work like their work. He replied; Yes, Abu Dharr, will be with those whom you love. Abu Dharr then repeated it. The Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) also repeated it.

Anas b. Malik said

I never saw the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) so happy about anything as I saw them happy about this thing. A man said : Messenger of Allah! A man loves another man for the good work which he does, but he himself cannot do like it. The Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) said: A man will be with those whom he loves.

Chapter 128: Regarding intercession

Abu Musa reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying

Make intercession to me, you will be rewarded, for Allah decrees what he wishes by the tongue of his prophet.

Chapter 129: A man should begin with his own name when writing a letter

Ibn al-Ala said

Al-Ala b. al-Hadrami wrote to the prophet (May peace be upon him), and he began with his name.

Chapter 131: Regarding honoring one's parents

Narrated Abdullah ibn Umar

A woman was my wife and I loved her, but Umar hated her. He said to me: Divorce her, but I refused. Umar then went to the Prophet (ﷺ) and mentioned that to him. The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Divorce her.

Ibn ‘Umar reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying

One of the finest acts of kindness is for a man to treat his father’s friends in a kindly way after he has departed.

Narrated AbutTufayl

I saw the Prophet (ﷺ) distributing flesh at Ji'irranah, and I was a boy in those days bearing the bone of the camel, and when a woman who came forward approach the Prophet (ﷺ), he spread out his cloak for her, and she sat on it. I asked: Who is she? The people said: She is his foster-mother.

Narrated Umar ibn as-Sa'ib

One day when the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) was sitting, his foster-father came forward. He spread out of a part of his garment and he sit on it. Then his mother came forward to him and he spread out the other side of his garment and she sat on it. Again , his foster-brother came forward. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) stood for him and seated him before himself.

Chapter 135: Regarding the rights of slaves

Narrated AbuDharr

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Feed those of your slaves who please you from what you eat and clothe them with what you clothe yourselves, but sell those who do not please you and do not punish Allah's creatures.

Chapter 120: Warding off waswasah

Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas

AbuZumayl said: I asked Ibn Abbas, saying: What is that I find in my breast? He asked: What is it? I replied: I swear by Allah, I cannot speak about it. He asked me: Is it something doubtful? and he laughed. He then said: No one could escape that, until Allah, the exalted, revealed: "If thou went in doubt as to what we have revealed unto thee, and ask those who have been reading the Book from before thee." He said: If you find something in your heart, say: He is the first and the Last, the Evident and the Immanent, and He has full knowledge of all things.

Chapter 123: Regarding tribalism

Narrated Wathilah ibn al-Asqa'

I asked: Messenger of Allah! what is party spirit? He replied: That you should help your people in wrongdoing.

Narrated Suraqah ibn Malik ibn Ju'sham al-Mudlaji

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) gave us an address and said: The best of you is the one who defends his tribe, so long as he commits no sin.

Abu Dawud said: Abu Ayyub b. Suwaid is weak.

Chapter 124: When one man loves another because of some good that he sees

Narrated Anas ibn Malik

A man was with the Prophet (ﷺ) and a man passed by him and said: Messenger of Allah! I love this man. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) then asked: Have you informed him? He replied: No. He said: Inform him. He then went to him and said: I love you for Allah's sake. He replied: May He for Whose sake you love me love you!

Chapter 126: The one who guides others to do good

Abu Mas’ud al-Ansari said

A man came to the prophet (May peace be upon him) and said: Messenger of Allah! I have been left without a mount. So give me a mount. He replied: I have no mount to give, but go to so and so; he may perhaps give you a mount. He then went to him and he gave him a mount. He came to the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) and informed him about it. Thereupon the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) said: if anyone guides someone to a good (deed), he will get the reward like the reward of the one who does it.