General Behavior (Kitab Al-Adab)

كتاب الأدب

Chapter 29: Conversing privately (around others)

A similar tradition has been transmitted by Ibn `Umar through a different chain of narrators. This version has

Abu Salih said: I asked Ibn `Umar: If they are four? He replied: Then it does not harm you.

Chapter 30: If a person gets up from his seat then returns

Abu Salih said

I was sitting with my father and there was also a boy with him. He got up and then returned. So my father mentioned a tradition on the authority of Abu Hurairah from the Prophet (ﷺ) saying: If anyone gets up from where he has been sitting and comes back to it, he has most right to it.

Narrated AbudDarda'

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) would sit and we would also sit around him. If he got up intending to return, he would take off his sandals or something he was wearing, and his Companions recognising his purpose (that he would return) would stay where they were.

Chapter 31: Is it disliked for a person to get from his seat without remembering Allah

Narrated AbuHurayrah

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: People who get up from an assembly in which they did not remember Allah will be just as if they had got up from an ass's corpse, and it will be a cause of grief to them.

Narrated AbuHurayrah

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: If anyone sits at a place where he does not remember Allah, deprivation will descend on him from Allah; and if he lies at a place where he does not remember Allah, deprivation will descend on him from Allah.

Chapter 32: Regarding expiation of a gathering

Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-'As

There are some expressions which a man utters three times when he gets up from an assembly he will be forgiven for what happened in the assembly; and no one utters them in an assembly held for a noble cause or for remembrance of Allah but that is stamped with them just as a document is stamped with a signet-ring. These expressions are: Glory be to Thee, O Allah, and I begin with praise of Thee, there is no god but thou; I ask Thy pardon, and return to Thee in repentance.

A similar tradition has also been transmitted by Abu Hurairah from the Prophet (ﷺ) through a different chain of narrators.

Narrated AbuBarzah al-Aslami

When the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) intended to get up from the assembly he used to say in the last. Glory be to Thee. O Allah, and I begin with praise of Thee, I testify that there is no god but Thou; I ask Thy pardon, and return to Thee in repentance. The man asked: Messenger of Allah! you utter the words now which you did not do in the past? He replied: (This is an) atonement for what takes place in the assembly.

Chapter 33: Conveying negative information from a gathering

Narrated Abdullah ibn Mas'ud

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: None of my Companions must tell me anything about anyone, for I like to come out to you with no ill-feelings.

Chapter 34: To beware of people

Narrated Amr ibn al-Faghwa' al-Khuza'i

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) called me. He intended to send me with some goods to AbuSufyan to distribute among the Quraysh at Mecca after the conquest.

He said: Search for a companion. Then Amr ibn Umayyah ad-Damri came to me and said: I have been told that you are intending to make a journey and are seeking a companion.

I said: Yes. He said: I am your companion. I then went to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and said: I have found a companion.

He asked: Who is he? I replied: Amr ibn Umayyah ad-Damri. He said: When you come down to the territory of his people, be careful of him, for a maxim says: If one is your real brother, do not feel safe with him.

So we proceeded, and when I reached al-Abwa', he said to me: I have some work with my people at Waddan, so stay here till I come back. I said: Do not lose your way. When he turned his back, I recalled the words of the Prophet (ﷺ). So I rode my camel and galloped without stopping. When I reached al-Asafir, he was pursuing me with a group of men. So I galloped and forged ahead of him. When he saw me that I had outstripped him, they returned and he came to me.

He said to me: I had some work with my people. I said: Yes. We then went on until we reached Mecca, and I gave the goods to AbuSufyan.

Abu Hurairah reported the Prophet(ﷺ) as saying

A believer is not stung twice from the same hole.

Chapter 35: The bearing of the Prophet(pbuh)

Anas said

when the Prophet(ﷺ) walked, it looked as if he bent forwards.

Sa’id al-Jariri quoted Abu al-Tufail as saying

I saw the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ). I asked: How did you see him? He said: He was white, good-looking, and when he walked, it looked as if he was descending to a low ground.

Chapter 36: Regarding a man placing one leg on top of the other

Jabir said

The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) forbade that a man should lie placing(and according to Qutaibah’s version: “should raise”) one of his legs over the other. Qutaibah’s version adds: When he was lying on his back.

‘Abbad b. Tamim quoted his paternal uncle as saying that he had seen the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) lying on his back in the mosque according to Qa’nabi’s version) placing one foot over the other.

Sa’id b. al-musayyab said

‘Umar b. al-khattab and ‘Uthman b. ‘Affan used to do that.

Chapter 37: Transmitting what others have said

Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: When a man tells something and then departs, it is a trust.

Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Meetings are confidential except three: those for the purpose of shedding blood unlawfully, or committing fornication, or acquiring property unjustly.

Abu sa’id al-khudri reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying

The most serious breach of trust in Allah’s sight is that a man who has intercourse with his wife, and she with him, spreads her secret.

Chapter 38: Regarding the one who spreads gossip

Hudhaifah reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying

A mischief-maker will not enter paradise.