Etiquette

كتاب الأدب

Chapter 33: Combining the name and the kunyah of the Prophet(SAW)

It was narrated from Jabir that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said

"Call yourselves by my name but do not call yourselves by my Kunyah."

It was narrated that Anas said

"The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) was in Baqi', and a man called out to another man: 'O Abul-Qasim!' The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) turned to him, and he said: 'I didn't mean you.' The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said: 'Call yourselves by my name but do not call yourselves by my Kunyah.'"

Chapter 34: A man being given a kunyah before he has a child

It was narrated from Hamzah bin Suhaib that Umar said to Suhaib

"Why are you called Abu Yahya when you do not have a son?" He said: "The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) gave me the Kunya of Abu Yahya."

It was narrated from Aisha that she said to the Prophet(ﷺ)

"All of your wives have a Kunyah except me." He said: "You are Umm Abdullah".

It was narrated that Anas said

"The Prophet(ﷺ) used to come to us and say to a brother of mine, who was small: 'O Abu Umair.'".

Chapter 35: Nicknames

It was narrated that Abu Jabirah bin Dahhak said

"(Allah's saying) "Nor insult one another by nicknames(Surah Al Hujarat 49:11)" was revealed concerning us, the Ansar. When the Prophet(ﷺ) came to us, a man among us would have two or three names, and the Prophet(ﷺ) might call him by one of those names, only to be told: "O Messenger of Allah(ﷺ), he does not like that name." Then:"Nor insult one another by nicknames." was revealed."

Chapter 36: Praise

It was narrated that Miqdad bin 'Amr said

"The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) commanded us to throw dust in the faces of those who praise others."

It was narrated that Muawiyah said

"I heard the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) say: 'Beware of praising one another, for it is slaughtering (one another).'"

It was narrated from Abdur-Rahman bin Abu Bakrah that his father said

"A man praised another man in the presence of Messenger of Allah(ﷺ). The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said: 'Woe to you,you have cut the neck of your companion,'several times. Then he said: 'If anyone of you praises his brother, let him say: "I think he is lie this, but I do not sanctify anyone before Allah."

Chapter 37: One who is consulted is entrusted

It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said

"One who is consulted is entrusted."

It was narrated from Abu Mas'ud that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said

"One who is consulted is entrusted."

It was narrated from Jabir that that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said

"If one of you consults his brother, then let him advise him."

Chapter 38: Entering Bathhouses

It was narrated that Abdullah bin Amr said

"The Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said: 'You will conquer the lands of the non-Arabs, where you will find houses called Hammamat (bathhouses). Men Should only enter them wearing a waist wrap, and do not let women enter them unless they are sick or bleeding following childbirth."

It was narrated from Aisha that the Prophet(ﷺ)

forbade men and women to enter bathhouses, then he allowed men to enter them wearing a waist wrap, but he did not make the same allowance for women.

It was narrated from Abu Malih AL-HUdhail that some women from the people of Hims asked permission to enter upon Aisha. She said

"Perhaps you are among those (women) who enter bathhouses? I heard the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) say: 'Any woman who takes off her clothes anywhere but in her husband's house, has torn the screen between her and Allah.'"

Chapter 39: Applying Hair removing chemical

It was narrated from Umm Salamah that when the Prophet(ﷺ) would apply (it)

he began with his private area, coating it with hair removing chemical. And his wife would do the remainder of his body.

It was narrated from Umm Salamah that

"the Prophet(ﷺ) would coat (with hair removing chemical) and remove the pubic hairs with his hand."

Chapter 40: Stories (for the purpose of exhortation)

It was narrated from Amr bin Shuaib, from his father, from his grandfather, that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said

"No one tells the stories to the people (for the purpose of exhortation) except a ruler, one appointed by a ruler, or a show-off."

It was narrated that Ibn Umar said

"Stories (for the purpose of exhortation) were unknown at the time of the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ), the time of Abu Bakr and Umar."

Chapter 41: Poetry

It was narrated from Ubbay bin Ka'b that the Messenger of Allah(ﷺ) said

"In some poetry there is wisdom."