The Book on Marriage

كتاب النكاح عن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم

Chapter 1: What Has Been Related About The Virtues Of Marriage And Encouraging It

Abu Ayyub narrated that

The Messenger of Allah said: "Four are from the Sunan of the Messengers: Al-Hayat, using Atar, the Siwak, and marriage."

Abdullah bin Mas'ud narrated

"We went with Allah's Messenger, while we were young men who had nothing. He said: 'O young men! You should marry, for indeed it helps in lowering the gaze and protecting the private parts. Whoever among you is not able to marry, then let him fast, for indeed fasting will diminish his sexual desire."

Chapter 2: What Has Been Related About The Prohibition Of Celibacy

Qatadah narrated from Al-Hasan, from Samurah that

The Prophet prohibited celibacy.

Sa'eed bin Al-Musayyab narrated from Sa'b bin Abi Waqqas

"The Messenger of Allah refused Uthman bin Ma'zun (when he asked) regarding celibacy, and if he had permitted it for him, then we would have castrated ourselves."

Chapter 3: What Has Been Related About: If You Are Pleased With Someone's Religion Then Marry Him

Abu Hurairah narrated that

The Messenger of Allah said: "When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with proposes to (someone under the care) of one of you, then marry to him. If you do not do so, then there will be turmoil (Fitnah) in the land and abounding discord (Fasad)."

Abu Hatim Al-Muzani narrated that

The Messenger of Allah said: "When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you then marry (her to) him. If you do not do so, then there will be turmoil (Fitnah) in the land and discord (Fasad). If you do not do so, then there will be turmoil (Fitnah) in the land and discord (Fasad)." They said: "O Messenger of Allah! What if there was something about him?"He said: "When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you then marry him." (And he (pbuh) said this) three times.

Chapter 4: What Has Been Related About: One Who Is Married For Three Things

Jabir narrated that

The Prophet said: "Indeed the woman is married for her religion, her wealth, and her beauty, so take the one with religion, and may your hands be dusty."

Chapter 5: What Has Been Related About Looking at The Proposed Woman

Bakr bin Abdullah Al-Muzani narrated that

Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah proposed to a woman, so the Prophet said: "Look at her, for indeed that is more likely to make things better between the two of you."

Chapter 6: What Has Been Related About Publicizing The Marriage

Abu Al-Balj narrated from Muhammad bin Hatib Al-Jumahi who said that

The Messenger of Allah said: "The distinction between the lawful and the unlawful is the Duff and the voice."

Aishah narrated that

The Messenger of Allah said: "Publicize this marriage, and hold it in the Masjid, and beat the Duff for it."

Ar-Rubai bint Muawwidh said

"The morning after the consummation of my marriage, the Prophet came and sat on my bed as far from me as you are sitting now, and our little girls started beating the Duff and reciting verses mourning my father who had been killed in the battle of Badr. One of them said: 'Among us is a Prophet who knows what will happen tomorrow.' On that the Prophet said: 'Stop saying this, and keep on saying what you were saying before.'"

Chapter 7: What (Has Been Related About What) To Say To The Newlywed

Abu Hurairah narrated that

When supplicating for the newlywed, the Prophet would say: (Barak Allahu laka wa baraka alaik, wa jama'a bainakuma fi khair.) "May Allah bless you and send blessings upon you, and bring goodness between you."

Chapter 8: What Has Been Related About What Is Said When One Has Intercourse With His Wife

Ibn Abbas narrated that

The Messenger of Allah said: "If anyone of you, when having sexual intercourse with his wife, says: (Bismillah, Allahumma jannibnash-Shaitana wa jannibish-Shaitana ma razaqtana) 'In the Name of Allah, O Allah! Protect me from Shaitan and protect what you bestow upon us from Shaitan' - then if Allah decrees that they should have a child, Shaitan will not be able to harm him.'"

Chapter 9: What Has Been Related About The Times In Which Marriage Is Recommended

Aishah narrated

"The Messenger of Allah married me in Shawwal, and he took up residence with me in Shawwal."

Chapter 10: What Has Been Related About (Al-Walimah) The Banquet

Anas bin Malik narrated

The Messenger of Allah saw some traces of saffron on `Abdur-Rahman bin `Awf so he said: 'What is this?' He said: 'I married a woman for the amount of gold equal to a date stone.' So he said: 'May Allah bless you. Have a banquet, even if with only one sheep.'"

Anas bin Malik narrated

"The Prophet had a banquet for Safiyyah bint Huyayy with Sawiq and dates."

(Another chain similar to the narration as no. 1095)

Others have reported this Hadith from Ibn Uyainah, from Az-Zuhri, from Anas, and they did not mention "from Wa'il, from his son Nawf" in it.

Ibn Mas'ud narrated that

The Messenger of Allah said: "Having food on the first day is was is obligatory, and having food on the second day is Sunnah, and having food on the third day is to be heard of, and whoever wants to be heard of, Allah will make him heard of."

Chapter 11: What Has Been Related About Accepting The Invitation

Ibn Umar narrated that

The Messenger of Allah said: "Accept the invitation when you are offered."