Parents

كتاب الْوَالِدَيْنِ

Chapter 9: Being Dutiful to Parents as long as that does not entail disobedience

'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, wanting to do jihad. The Prophet asked, 'Are your parents alive?' 'Yes,' he replied. he said, 'Then exert yourself on their behalf.'"

Chapter 10: The One who Fails his Parents will not enter the Garden

Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Disgrace! Disgrace! Disgrace!" They said, "Messenger of Allah, who?" He said, "The one who fails his parents or one of them when they are old will enter the Fire."

Chapter 11: Allah prolongs the life of someone who is dutiful towards his

Mu'adh said, "Bliss belongs to someone who is dutiful towards his parents. Allah Almighty will prolong his life."

Chapter 12: One does not ask forgiveness for his father if he is an

Ibn 'Abbas mentioned the words of the Almighty, "When one or bothof them reach old age with you, do not say 'Ugh!' to them out of irritationand do not be harsh with them but speak to them with gentleness and generosity.Take them under your wing, out of mercy, with due humility and say

'Lord,show mercy to them as they did in looking after me when I was small."(17:23-24) He said, "This was abrogated in Surat at-Tawba: 'Itis not right for the Prophet and those who have iman to ask forgiveness forthe mushrikun even if they are close relatives after it has become clearto them that they are the Companions of the Blazing Fire.' (9:113)"

Chapter 13: Dutifulness towards a parent who is an idolater

Sa'id ibn Abi Waqqas said

"Four ayats were revealed about me. The firstwas when my mother swore she would neither eat nor drink until I left Muhammad,may Allah bless him and grant him peace. Allah Almighty revealed, 'Butif they try to make you associate something with Me about which you haveno knowledge, do not obey them. Keep company with them correctly and courteouslyin this world' (31:15) The second was when I took a sword thatI admired and said, 'Messenger of Allah, give me this!' Then the ayatwas revealed: 'They will ask you about booty.' (8:1) The third waswhen I was ill and the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and granthim peace, came to me and I said, 'Messenger of Allah, I want to divide myproperty. Can I will away a half?' He said, 'No.' 'A third?' I asked. Hewas silent and so after that it was allowed to will away a third. The fourthwas when I had been drinking wine with some of the Ansar. One of them hitmy nose with the jawbone of a camel. I went to the Prophet, may Allah blesshim and grant him peace, and Allah Almighty revealed the prohibition of wine."

Asma' bint Abi Bakr said, "In the time of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, my mother came to me hoping (I would be dutiful). I asked the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, 'Do I have to treat her well?' 'Yes,' he replied."

Ibn 'Umar said, "'Umar saw a silk robe for sale. He said, 'Messenger of Allah, would you buy this robe and wear it on Jumu'a and when delegations visit you?' He replied, 'Only a person who has no portion in the Next World could wear this.' Then the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, was given some robes made of the same material. He sent one of the robes to 'Umar. 'Umar exclaimed, 'How can I wear it when you said what you said about it?' The Prophet replied, 'I did not give it to you so that you could wear it. You can sell it or give it to someone.' 'Umar sent it to a brother of his in Makka who had not yet become Muslim."

Chapter 14: A person should not revile his parents

'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Reviling one's parents is one of the great wrong actions." They asked, "How could he revile them?" He said, "He reviles a man who then in turn reviles his mother and father."

'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man's reviling his father is one of the major wrong actions in the sight of Allah Almighty."

Chapter 15: The punishment for disobeying parents

Abu Bakra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "There is no wrong action more likely to bring punishment in this world in addition to what is stored up in the Next World than oppression and severing ties of kinship."

'Imran ibn Husayn said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'What do you say about fornication, drinking wine and theft?' 'Allah and His Messenger know best,' we replied. He stated, 'They are acts of outrage and there is punishment for them, but shall I tell you which is the greatest of the great wrong actions? Associating with Allah Almighty and disobeying parents.' He had been reclining, but then he sat up and said, 'and lying.'"

Chapter 16: Making Parents weep

Ibn 'Umar said, "Making parents weep is part of disobedience and one of the major wrong actions."

Chapter 17: The Supplication of Parents

Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and granthim peace, said, "Three supplications are answered without a doubt

thesupplication of someone who is oppressed, the supplication of someone ona journey, and the supplication of parents for their children."

Abu Hurayra reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "No human child has ever spoken in the cradle except for 'Isa ibn Maryam, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and the companion of Jurayj." Abu Hurayra asked, "Prophet of Allah, who was the companion of Jurayj?" The Prophet replied, "Jurayj was a monk who lived in a hermitage. There was a cowherd who used to come to the foot of his hermitage and a woman from the village used to come to the cowherd.

Chapter 18: Offering Islam to a Christian mother

Abu Hurayra said, "Neither Jew nor Christian has heard me and then not loved me. I wanted my mother to become Muslim, but she refused. I told her about it and she still refused. I went to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and said, 'Pray to Allah for me.' He did so and I went to her. She was inside the door of the house and said, 'Abu Hurayra, I have become Muslim.' I told the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and I asked, 'Make supplication to Allah for me and my mother.' He said, 'O Allah, make people love Abu Hurayra and his mother.'"

Chapter 19: Dutifulness towards Parents after their Death

Abu Usayd said, "We were with the Messenger of Allah, may Allah blesshim and grant him peace, when a man asked, 'Messenger of Allah, is thereany act of dutifulness which I can do for my parents after their death?'He replied, 'Yes. There are four things

Supplication for them, askingforgiveness for them, fulfilling their pledges, and being generous to friendsof theirs. You only have ties of kinship through your parents."

Abu Hurayra said, "The dead person can be raised a degree after his death. He said, 'My Lord, how is this?' He was told, 'Your child can ask for forgiveness for you.'"

Ibn Sirin said, "We were with Abu Hurayra one night and he said, 'O Allah, forgive Abu Hurayra and his mother and whoever asks for forgiveness for both of them.'" Muhammad said, "We used to ask for forgiveness for them so that we would be included in Abu Hurayra's supplication."

Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless himand grant him peace, said, "When a person dies, all action is cut off forhim with the exception of three things

sadaqa which continues, knowledgewhich benefits, or a righteous child who makes supplication for him."

Ibn 'Abbas reported that a man said, "Messenger of Allah, my mother died without a will. Will it help her if I give sadaqa on her behalf?" "Yes," he replied.